This week’s TDQ Q&A is with author Robert E. Blackmon. Robert talks with us about his book, “The Gay Groom’s Guide,” how he became a writer and how he’s enjoying married life. Here is this week’s TDQ Q&A with writer Robert E. Blackmon:
The Daily Quarterly: Who was your favorite writer growing up?
Robert E. Blackmon: I was a big sci-fi fan as a kid. Ray Bradbury was the most popular sci-fi writer of them all. His “Fahrenheit 51,” “Something Wicked This Way Comes” and all of his short stories were thrilling. He was my favorite.
TDQ: What was your favorite book growing up?
REB: “The Catcher in the Rye” was my favorite book growing up. It tells the story of a teenage boy named Holden who is trying to find his way through life. His consciousness is tested as he encounters some phony people in his travels. I think this is a relatable situation with most teens.
TDQ: What made you want to be a writer?
REB: I always enjoyed my English classes in school. When I went to college I took a writing course I was immediately hooked.
TDQ: What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten?
REB: Be yourself. Period.
TDQ: What’s the worst advice you’ve ever gotten?
REB: I don’t take bad advice. It only inspires me to do better.
TDQ: Who are your influences?
REB: My family, friends and those who are selfless inspire me.
TDQ: Tell us about your first book, “The Gay Groom’s Guide”

Robert E. Blackmon’s book is called The Gay Groom’s Guide but we suspect there is information that might apply to people of all orientation’s. Like don’t mash cake into your new spouse’s face just after vowing to honor and respect them.
REB: As the title suggests, The Gay Groom’s Guide To Planning Your Perfect Wedding is a wedding guide. It was written through my own experiences and difficulties in planning my own wedding. I provide to the point information and short cuts designed to take the stress out of the planning process. While it was written with gay men in mind, this guide is written in a way to help anyone planning their very special day.
TDQ: What sort of feedback have you gotten on the book?
REB: The feedback from the book has been overwhelming. I had no idea how many people were facing the same kinds of obstacles and I have been told that the book is easy to read and very helpful.
TDQ: What inspired you to write it?
REB: The book was never meant to be published. It started out as a writing exercise, a journal. I was having difficulty finding gay-specific materials for my wedding and starting journaling. My husband mentioned to me one day that I should put my findings in book form. He said, “If we are having these difficulties, others must be as well.” And thus the book was born. Continue reading